Tuesday, October 25, 2022

 

Oct. 25, 2022

I don’t knowhow time can go so fast. I wanted to say for the whole week that a serious dent was made in our family when my uncle cas (Casey) passed away just over a week ago. He ws the last of the 14 kid in the Chmielewski family (Aunt Rose was the second last). It is hard to say who was my favorite undle because there was not a bad one in the bunch, but maybe because he was closest to me in age (of the 14) but I thin he was my favourite, that’s why I took his name for my religious name. I think his kids and all us cousins loved him a lot. He was just a good man. He was 96 when he died and I am 87, just 9 yrs. difference. I admired him , among other reasons because he built his own house, from digging the basement to doing the plumbing and electricity along with the usual help from the local guys giving a hand…You know, put a cas of beer out and a few snacks on Saturday and watch the house go up. That was the spirit In those days….all the neighbors pitched in and helped each other. Maybe it still works that way but it is long since I have been in the States to notice. It still happens in the villages here in Africa but too many are becoming westernized here too and people are getting more individualistic. But I sad event  sorry that it took me so long to mention this sad event in our family history. To make it more totally relevant for non-family members, he was one of my many great mentors. I wanted to be like him. Let me put this in my blog before I forget for another two weeks. I forget lots of things but I thank God that I still remember my name, and it is not just….hey you. Ha.  Lots of love to you all till next time the sprit moves.

 

Monday, October 17, 2022

 

Oct. 17, 2022

Let me just throw this little bit in while it is fresh in my mind.

You know , I said after a few days after the failure of our hope at Luthuli, that I was down, down, down, down,  just a bit above depression. However, after a few days I knew that it was not the end of the story. I don’t Have  clue what the end of the story will be, (maybe it is my faith speaking now) and  God being the jokester that s/he is , something totally unexpected is going to pop up and God will have the last laugh.

Wednesday, October 5, 2022

 Oct. 5, 2022

Picking up from where we left off at the Luthuli hospital neurological clinic. While we were waiting to be called, I saw that the clinic was full, mostly with mothers with children, mostly babies.

I was parked in my wheelchair at the wall on the left and I saw two mothers with their  1 yr. old babies opposite me and both babies had head as big as watermelons. I felt so sorry of them (encephalitis) with their problems and ashamed with my minor, non-life threatening problem.. At least I had time to pray for them, to have the strength and love to be able to handle the daily demands that these children will make on them. My partner, Michelle, was the only white, besides me, but she had no problem communicating with the other women and nurses in the clinic. To be like that in South Africa is rare and a gift.

   Finally we were called and were shown to a room with a junior doctor who examined my case. First, he made it clear that they don’t do Baclofen pump operations at Luthuli, although both Neurosurgeons (one a friend and classmate of our family doctor and the other, the one who got us into Luthuli in the first place whose children’s godparent is Michelle , who accompanied me both knew that that is the reason we were going there and both of them were heads of the neurological dept. in their time and one of them presently..

the doctor made a few checks with my leg and eventually wrote a report  that made it clear that the pump was not an option. He gave a form for another MRI if we wanted to book an appointment for that. We were called to him just after 12 noon and left him, disappointed, about 12:30. So, that was that. I kind of expected that but it didn’t really hit until Friday and Sunday when I really felt down, as I said earlier.

    So I Made the decision to put it out of my mind completely and just get on with life without bothering   our friends neurosurgeon friends any more as I felt that it wasn’t fair to stretch the friendship any more than we already had. They had tried their best. So we just let go and let God s the AA slogan goes, sure that it’s not the end of the story and it will come one day as a surprise.

    That night I went to bed at 6pm and slept till 12 midnight, hade a  pee and went back to sleep till 5 am and again till 7:30 and spent most of the day lying down, having no energy, psychologically, emotionally, ;physically exhausted. The first time I slept through the night I months, never feeling the spasms.

So. As for most people with problems that don’t seem to be solvable, we just take it a day at a time.

Nothing new for most of you.

Monday, October 3, 2022

 

 

 

Oct. 4, 2022

I have not finished what I wanted to say abour my visit ti Lurthuli Hospital, but I just got busy. So here is something to feed on in the meantime. See you later,

 

 

Sept. 26, 2022

Well my thoughts revolve around the failure to make any headway at the Luthuli Central hospital.. We (I plus others)_ had hoped that we would have been given the ok to have a baclofen pump installed, which would  have eased off or eliminated the spasms. Bu we were told that there are no such ops at this hospital any more.

I had thought that I had prepared myself d for a negative  response, but I was emotionally and psychologically exhausted. Feeling down is the word. Not quite depressed, but close. However. Let me explain a few things.

Chief Albert Luthuli Central Hospital is the highest you can go in hospital care. If you are referred to Luthuli by another lesser hospital, and get oked by the staff at Luthuli for an op, all is free. Cancer    ,  heart,    kidneys,    etc. the best of the best are here.

 

When you make the appointment, you are given a number and a date. When you arrive on your date you show the guard your number and he refers you to the next person. When he sees your number, he checks his info and gives you another number which will be called out and shown on a board as in air terminals. We ( a friend kindly volunteered her time for the day with me---the one whose friend is the neurosurgeon who arranged this appointment) arrived about 7:30am and our number was called at 9:10am. We were told to go to counter 4. That is where the normal information is taken that will be your file from now on. You are then given your precious hospital card with your patient number for all future visits. We were then sent to the neurological clinic full of other people and again you hand your file over to one of the nurses and wait your turn to see one of the doctors. We finally go called to see a doctor at 12:10 afternoon. So the wait was from just about 9:30 to just after 12 noon

 

 

 

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The Case for Leaving America to Escape Racism

As a Black woman, I want freedom from oppression. So I’m finally plotting my exit.

Perspective by DeNeen L. Brown

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September 26, 2022 at 10:00 a.m. EDT

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The mouth of the Volta River in Ghana seems to be swelling with the stories of my people. By day, the river, black and thick, runs south, dumping its fresh water into the Gulf of Guinea and eventually the Atlantic Ocean, where it churns in a powerful vortex. By night, I swear I see the river reverse itself, running inland, as if an invisible force were swallowing it whole. The pink water lilies, with plump green leaves that floated south that morning, appear to be moving backward. It is magical and mysterious. I’ve never witnessed a river reverse course.

I believe this river carries the stories of my enslaved African ancestors who may have been transported down its waterway hundreds of years ago into waiting boats anchored out at sea before making the transatlantic voyage as “human cargo,” heading from this Gold Coast for South America, the Caribbean islands and other parts of North America. As many as 15 million Africans were packed in the belly of slave ships, often without proper ventilation or sufficient food. It is estimated that up to 2 million died in the Middle Passage, lost in deep-water graves.

My ancestors, though I do not know them, must have survived that gruesome voyage, only to have to endure the barbarity of enslavement in the Americas. As with many people in the African diaspora — scattered by the evil of the slave trade, disconnected from our language, song, culture and people — I am not exactly sure where my ancestors are from. Still, I know that my distant ancestors are from this continent. As Peter Tosh sang, “Don’t care where you come from / As long as you’re a Black man, you’re an African / No mind your nationality / You have got the identity of an African.”

 

 

In December 2021, I jumped on an airplane to reconnect with the continent — and to explore Ghana as a potential place to live and plant new roots. It was a time when America seemed to be splintering, with state laws banning the teaching of critical race theory — effectively, barring the teaching of historical truths — and constant warnings about real dangers to democracy and the possibility of a new civil war. Eleven months earlier, I had watched as insurrectionists attacked the U.S. Capitol on Jan. 6, scaling walls, beating police officers with American flags, breaking historic glass windows, bursting doors and trampling through a building built by enslaved Black people. Someone erected a gallows and noose outside. One man carried a Confederate flag, a symbol of entrenched racism, through the halls of Congress. The fight for racial justice seemed to be failing. The moral floor had cracked.

Democracy appeared to be imploding, and the country seemed to be increasingly dangerous for Black people — although racist terror was embedded in the fabric of American history and is not a new phenomenon. In 1999, Amadou Diallo, a student, was shot 19 times by four New York police officers who were then acquitted of all charges in his killing. In 2006, police shot Sean Bell the morning of his wedding. In 2009, transit police fatally shot Oscar Grant III in Oakland, Calif. In 2014, Michael Brown was fatally shot by a police officer. Walter Scott was killed in 2015, Philando Castile in 2016. In 2018, Stephon Clark was fatally shot in his grandmother’s backyard. In 2020, George Floyd was murdered, and Breonna Taylor was fatally shot while she slept in her bed. In Kentucky, Charleston and Buffalo, self-proclaimed white supremacists attacked Black people in churches and grocery stores.

As a reporter for more than 35 years, I watched, researched and wrote with a sense of journalistic distance while consuming the emotions of every tragedy. Each video was so terribly sad. The 2019 police killing of Elijah McClain in Colorado ripped at my core. I replayed the videos of McClain, 23, a peace-loving vegetarian who played his violin to shelter cats, pleading for police to stop hurting him and to just let him walk home in peace. We couldn’t walk the streets, drive, study, go to the grocery store or sleep without fear of getting killed.

One night while on my trip to Ghana, my driver made a U-turn in traffic and was stopped by a police officer. My stomach dropped. It was the middle of the night and I was terrified. I watched as the driver got out of the car and walked toward the officer standing on the side of the road. The driver motioned to the officer, talking with his hands, explaining he was lost and apologizing for making the U-turn. The officer listened. After a pause, the officer said, “I forgive you. Go about your way.”

I want this kind of freedom: to live in a country where traffic stops end peacefully. I want the ability to move among people who look like me. I want to engage in intellectual debates without having to explain the history of this country’s racism. I know no place is perfect. But I want to live in a country where racism is not a constant threat. Which is why I have decided to eventually leave America. When or where I will go I can’t say for sure — but I am finally ready.

 

Writer DeNeen L. Brown at the former site of Fort Kongenstein in Ada Foah, Ghana, where enslaved Africans were traded. (Courtesy of DeNeen L. Brown)

I am not alone in my plot to leave the country where I was born in an attempt to flee entrenched oppression. There is no official tally of African Americans who have recently chosen to leave, but anecdotally there has been a surge of interest in the topic.

Looking ahead to the 400th anniversary of the arrival of the first enslaved African people on the shores of what is now Virginia, Ghana’s president, Nana Akufo-Addo, issued a call to people in the African diaspora to “return home” by visiting and moving to Ghana. “In the Year of the Return, we open our arms even wider to welcome home our brothers and sisters,” Akufo-Addo said in 2018 at the National Press Club in Washington, “in what will become a birthright journey home for the global African family.”

For many, the death of Floyd in 2020 may have been a turning point. “In the last two years, there has been a groundswell of Black people in America who want to go to Africa,” says Greg Carr, a professor of Africana studies and former chair of the Department of Afro-American Studies at Howard University. “I haven’t made the jump yet, but I’ve been thinking about it all the time. … I would prefer to experience the full range of human experiences on the continent, rather than put up with the default position in the United States, where we are ‘othered’ and excluded from the definition of humanity. It is a perpetual field of violence.”

Celebrities have been part of this trend. In 2020, the singer and actor Ludacris announced on Instagram that he had become a citizen of Gabon, a country in central Africa. Actor Samuel L. Jackson also became a citizen of Gabon after he took a DNA test that showed he was connected to the country’s Benga tribe. “It was spiritually uplifting to connect with the tribe and to look down and see my relatives and ... to be welcomed by some people that looked at me ... like, ‘Come home,’ ” Jackson told “The Daily Show” host Trevor Noah. In 2021, singer Stevie Wonder announced he was moving to Ghana. During an interview with Oprah Winfrey, he explained that his decision was prompted by the recent political climate in America: “I don’t want to see my children’s children’s children have to say, ‘Oh, please like me. Please respect me. Please know that I am important. Please value me.’ ”

The U.S. State Department’s Bureau of Consular Affairs says it does not keep track of the number of Americans who have moved out of the country. “U.S. citizens are not required to register their presence abroad, and we do not maintain comprehensive lists of U.S. citizens residing overseas,” a State Department spokesperson wrote to me. “Estimates of U.S. citizens in particular countries can vary and are constantly changing. We do not want to provide figures that cannot be considered authoritative.”

But online, one can find growing communities that are sharing stories of what they sometimes call the Blaxit, i.e., Black Exit. The YouTube channel GoBlack2Africa has posted dozens of videos interviewing African Americans who’ve moved to Africa. A video from the African Web YouTube channel titled “Why Are So Many African Americans Moving to Ghana” has been viewed over 217,000 times.

In 2021, Tim Swain, a poet and educator who moved from Indiana to Ghana, told the YouTube channel Odana Network that the first time he visited Ghana in 2007, he was transformed “as a Black person.” Then in 2014, he went to join peaceful protests in Missouri after the police killing of 18-year-old Michael Brown. The attacks on protesters left him shaken. A few months later, he traveled to Ghana again. “It was like this juxtaposition of America where I am feeling like the bottom of the bottom, reminded every day that I’m a Black person that is a stain on the fabric of America,” Swain recounted. “I come to Ghana where I literally exist as a human being. I have no conscience about the color of my skin. … Every time I came to Ghana it became literally harder and harder to return to the U.S.” After about two years of planning, he and his wife moved to Ghana in 2019.

Rashad McCrorey, who owns a travel company that organizes tours to Africa, told BNC (“America’s Black News Channel”) that he was traveling in Ghana in 2020 when the pandemic hit the United States. He decided to stay. “It’s been an amazing experience,” he said. “In America, we deal a lot with racial oppression, [systemic] oppression, whether it’s red lining ... the prison industrial complex. But what I appreciate most about being in Africa is that I just wake up every day and being a man.”

Winthrope Wellington, 38, who runs Throp, a YouTube channel that highlights economic business development in Jamaica, has interviewed African Americans who have recently moved to the island. Wellington — whose father is Jamaican — permanently moved from New York to Negril after college. Last year, Wellington interviewed Rahel Teklegiorgis, a guest at his family’s hotel who decided to move to Jamaica from Philadelphia during the pandemic. “As a single Black female ... I felt welcomed. That’s the beauty of the culture here,” Teklegiorgis told Wellington. “Wherever I go, they’re like, ‘Empress!’ It’s just a beautiful thing to feel welcomed and valued and held up. ... It’s like a breath of fresh air. ... I would encourage folks to just try it. Take the first step.”

After he posted the interview, Wellington noticed a theme in the video’s comments. “I realized there was an underground movement of people asking, ‘How can I, as a Black American, move to a country where I don’t feel oppressed and automatically judged by my skin color?’ ” Wellington told me. He added that during Donald Trump’s presidency, “people were driven to my channel. People were looking for a way out.” He also noted another element that may be a key driver of the trend: In the age of remote work, people can choose to live abroad without quitting their jobs.

And yet, people have also been making this choice since before the pandemic and George Floyd and the upheavals of the Trump era. Mark E. Blanton, 53, a former U.S. Secret Service agent, and his wife, LaTasha R. Blanton, 44, a doctor of physical therapy, decided to move from their home in Virginia to South Africa after visiting in 2011. “We saw beautiful homes, luxury homes,” LaTasha told me of her first visit to South Africa. “We saw Black people holding positions.” It made her think of all the work she had put into her career in the United States without ever really feeling as though she had quite arrived. In America, she recalls, “I checked all the boxes they asked me to check: Go to school, get a degree and at the end you would have a life where you don’t have to worry as much. But it was never that.”

In 2018, they moved, resolving that “we should live out the rest of our days around people who think like us, look like us and feel the same way we feel about our accomplishments,” says LaTasha. “When I first arrived in South Africa, that is when I realized I was living.”

Mark and LaTasha now own the Real South Africa tourism company, which is based in Johannesburg and introduces visitors to life in the country. They have seen an increase in the number of people booking tours. For many, the trip is an experience that shifts their inner core. When their airplanes land, “everybody says they felt something,” Mark told me.

Whenever Mark has to travel to the States, he sobs on his return flight to South Africa. “It’s the feeling of freedom,” he explains. “I don’t want to let it go, even for a moment. I love my freedom. I truly do. You must understand the experience on this side as an African American. … A lot of African Americans are figuring this thing out. That is the biggest draw. They are getting their freedom.”